I've heard this online, but never really looked it up. The WTF appointment is just what is sounds like: What the fuck happened? Why didn't the transfer work? What did I do wrong? What's next? We now found ourselves having to schedule it. Luckily, we didn't have to wait very long, just a few weeks.
Hubby and I had quite a few discussions on where to go from here. Do we take a break? Do we try again right away? How will we afford another transfer? What else could they do differently to make this successful? Should we accept being childless?
We went in feeling lost, heartbroken, and exhausted. My RE came in and was so sweet. She was shocked that the transfer didn't work. We tried Lupron, and thought that would do the trick. All she could tell us was that sometimes, it just doesn't take.
She had a new plan that sounds hopeful. She was not pushy, just told us that if and...