The day after we found out that we were pregnant, my in-laws came into town for Thanksgiving! I was so excited to see them. They haven't visited in a while, and it would be nice to have some family around.
My hubby and I had decided at the very beginning of our 3rd FET try, that we would not tell ANYONE. NO ONE knows this time. When people ask when we would try again, our answer was always the same: We're going to take a break for a while.
#1: It's just too hard emotionally for everyone to know.
#2: If I could get pregnant naturally, I wouldn't tell anyone until we were ready.
#3: I didn't want to disappoint anyone.
#4: I just didn't want to. I was tired of it all.
So here come my in-laws. This will be their FIRST grandchild! I want to shout it from the rooftops, but we are staying cautious because of our previous miscarriage.